I may have initially joined the conference as part of the performance showcase, but I am incredibly glad I took part in the workshops and meetups. It was a cathartic experience to see and hear other LGBTQ JA stories, and it was an emotional time for me throughout the weekend. I am grateful that the virtual conference made this accessible to me in Hawaii but I hope I can attend in-person in the future!

-Alex Hayashi, Oboist, Okaeri Connects!

I attended an Okaeri conference for the first time in 2021 and was so impressed not just with the wide range of LGBTQ topics covered but also with the depth of knowledge of the speakers I heard. And there was something else: the warm, accepting, caring environment that made me feel so welcomed to be a part of this group

-Alden Hayashi, Author of “Two Nails, One Love”

The workshops I attended were fantastic, and I felt the enthusiasm and care of folks in attendance.

An all around heartfelt event with many moving moments indeed.

-Kris Mizutani, 2021 Conference Workshop Facilitator & Attendee, Omusubi, Northern California

The Okaeri 2021 Conference was an uplifting and inspirational event for me and others. It should be made available, reviewed, and repeated. It went beyond words in touching all senses and emotions while acknowledging and validating being Japanese American LGBTQ.

-Roy Wesley (né Uyesugi)

For me, Okaeri was the first place I got to be in community with that many LGBTQ Nikkei, and it was inspiring and freeing to know that there were so many ways that LGBTQ Nikkei were existing and expressing ourselves. Okaeri also has a special place in my heart because it was the first time I invited my mom to join me in a queer centered space. Queer community has been so essential to my survival and healing, and it felt really important to me that my mom get to see some of that part of my life. Okaeri was a place that could hold and support both of us, and the fact that she came from Hawaii to be there together with me made a tremendous difference in how close I feel to my mom.

-JJ Ueunten, Invisible to Invincible (I2I)

Chicago, IL

Okaeri 2014 was a watershed experience for me and my adult child. A heart connection was restored – we began to really communicate, offer and receive love and support from one another for the first time in more than 20 years! We returned to Okaeri 2016. I will always be grateful for Okaeri for how they are saving families and lives by helping us learn and grow deeper in love and understanding of our LGBTQ loved ones and of ourselves.

-Lei Ueunten, mother who loves her queer child

Honolulu, HI

My mom and I were so thrilled to attend Okaeri 2016 and see the amazing work created by and for Nikkei LGBTQ families. We want our children, grandchildren and all children to grow up in a world that is safe and respectful regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Okaeri is providing a welcoming place for families to learn, get support, find resources and find community, so they do not feel so alone.

-Linda Aratani, The Aratani Foundation

Okaeri was a very powerful experience! I was moved by the amount of “family” that attended - both in the queer sense of other LGBTQ Nikkei and in the sense of how inter-generational the gathering was. Looking forward to the ways we can 'welcome each other home' with the next Okaeri.

-Kiyomi Fujikawa, API Chaya, Seattle, Washington

As a 51 year old, fourth generation Japanese American gay man, I see Okaeri as an act of redress.  I ran away from home when I was 18 and joined the US Army because I could not imagine coming out as gay and being supported by my family and the Nikkei community.  I left the village never to return because the messages that I received back in 1984 were non-affirming, damaging, shameful and silencing.  Today, I am proud to be back in the Nikkei community as it shines a light on issues having to do with LGBT JA acceptance and justice.

-Eric Arimoto

Growing up, the stigma I experienced around my voice and my body came from having so few models of what Queer East Asians look and sound like. I want JA's to feel empowered to use and hear their own voices. My hope is that people can use Okaeri as motivation and to see a transformation in whatever way is necessary for them. I see Okaeri as a vehicle for LGBTQ JA’s to weather the tumultuous times that we are living through

-Michael Matsuno

Being part of Okaeri 2016 with my father and my daughter, Malisa, was an amazing experience. Sharing our story, I hope will empower and inspire other Nikkei families to stand by their LGBTQ children with unconditional love and acceptance. Regardless who our children are or love, we are the foundation on which they stand and gain confidence to go out into the world. Thank you Okaeri for providing all of us a safe space to be ourselves.

-Michelle Honda-Phillips, mother of a transgender child

Okaeri 2014, the very first Okaeri and my first time attending an event like that. I had no idea what to expect and was a little nervous but by the end of the day, I had made some supportive and caring new friends, enjoyed being with like-minded folk, loved the delicious bento and fresh fruit and pastries, but most of all, I was amazed and inspired by all the LGBTQ people, young and not-so-young that were there with friends, family, and allies!

So as one of the less than young crowd and as a transgender person, I would like to invite and encourage everyone to join us for Okaeri 2016. You'll be glad you did!

-Lori Song

Being a part of the first Okaeri was such a heartfelt experience.  It was a warm welcoming for not only members of the LGBTQ community, but their family, friends, and allies.  I attended Okaeri to support my friend and also as an ally of the LGBTQ community, but I soon began realizing that I was there through an even stronger personal connection.  My brother who was gay passed away twenty years ago, and I knew if he were still here to have experienced this powerful gathering with such love, acceptance, and openness, it would have been so profound, and he would have been so grateful.  Thank you, Okaeri!

-Alison Kochiyama

I never dreamed that Okaeri 2014 could touch so many lives.  Hearing stories of parents connecting closer to their children, LGBTQ individuals courageously asking to be seen and straight allies compassionately wanting to find ways to support the LGBTQ community has brought hope to me as a mother of a transgender son. I look forward to Okaeri 2016 and all it can bring to our Nikkei LGBTQ families this year.

-Marsha Aizumi, Co-Chair Okaeri 2014

I entered into this journey with Okaeri wanting to join the fight against injustice, especially injustice against LGBTQ people that comes out of the Christian church.  And I wanted to promote the message that there was space in God's family for everyone, no need to leave any part of your identity at the door.  Being a lifelong Christian, and someone whose primary identity is Christian, I wanted to take action the way Jesus would have -- to use my power and straight Christian privilege to make room in the faith community for my LGBTQ brothers and sisters.  I wanted to be someone who would "be the light that dispels another's darkness."  But the remarkable thing is that I have been on the receiving end of so much love and community as a result of my decision to speak out.  Knowing and loving and affirming queer-identified people has enriched my life as a Christian in ways I never thought possible.  So if you are, or used to be, or wish you could be a person of faith ...wherever you are on your faith journey...just come.  There will be a place for you at Okaeri.

-Marian Sunabe, Asian American & Pacific Islander Christians for Social Justice

Okaeri has been an international inspiration to LGBTQ and Nikkei communities. It is so important to recognize the intersections in people’s lives; Okaeri 2016 will bring people together in a loving and safe environment.

-Sarah Baker, Seattle JACL President